In the 90s, Jennifer Aniston and Angelina Jolie represented two poles of âwomannessâ. Aniston was in every living room in the country â Americaâs sweetheart, the girl next door, everyone
When Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston split 16 years ago today, many believed it was down to Angelina Jolie. But Jen said otherwise...Video LoadingVideo UnavailableBrad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston are reunited online When Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston announced their split to the shock of the world 16 years ago today, many were quick to point the finger at his sexy Mr and Mrs Smith co-star, Angelina Jolie. Indeed, their suspicions only seemed to be confirmed when Brad and Ange were spotted playing happy families on the beach with her son Maddox just weeks later. They would go on to have five more children and tie the knot before divorcing in a blaze of acrimony in 2016. But while Brad's feelings for Angelina may well have been a factor, Jen said the cracks in the marriage were already there before she came on the scene. Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston split 16 years ago today ( Image: FilmMagic) At the time of their January 2005 split, pals said the former couple had been struggling for about a year, with Jen later admitting they had lost their emotional intimacy. And when she needed her husband's support as Friends came to an end in 2004, Jen said Brad - who by that point was filming Mr and Mrs Smith - "just wasn't there for me" and didn't show up for the final episode. Opening up about the reasons behind their split, Jen told Vanity Fair they had started operating as two individuals rather than as a team. âItâs just complicated,â she said. âRelationships are complicated. Youâre two people continually evolving, and there will be times when those changes clash. There are all these levels of growth â and when you stop growing together, thatâs when the problems happen." Brad moved on with Angelina Jolie ( Image: UK Press via Getty Images) The problem, said friends, was the pressure to be the perfect couple when behind closed doors they were just an average husband and wife who had lows as well as highs. An insider told People magazine: "They gradually lost sight of themselves as individuals. And despite their nice lifestyle and having everything they might want, they werenât happy. They lost a sense of self.â Jen heartbreakingly blamed herself, stating that her willingness to give so much of herself to Brad had contributed to their downfall. âIt was that thing about being a nurturer; I love taking care of people, and I definitely put his needs before mine sometimes,â she told Vanity Fair. Jen said Brad 'wasn't there' for her emotionally when Friends came to an end ( Image: Getty) âItâs such an insidious thing, you donât really see where it started - and where you ended. Thereâs no one to blame but yourself.â A mutual friend of the former Hollywood power couple also claimed it was Brad who stalled on having children and not Jen - as was cruelly circulated at the time. For Brad's part, he hinted at his state of mind in the run-up to the split, admitting he was bored with himself. âIt became very clear to me that I was intent on trying to find a movie about an interesting life, but I wasnât living an interesting life myself,â he told Parade magazine. Brad and Angelina struck up a close bond on the set of Mr and Mrs Smith ( Image: Splash) âI think that my marriage [to Jennifer Aniston] had something to do with it. Trying to pretend the marriage was something that it wasnât.â The fan backlash was instant and Brad quickly apologised for appearing to point the finger at Jen, insisting he was the one to blame. âIt grieves me that this was interpreted this way,â Pitt said in a statement. âJen is an incredibly giving, loving, and hilarious woman who remains my friend. It is an important relationship I value greatly. âThe point I was trying to make is not that Jen was dull, but that I was becoming dull to myself â and that, I am responsible for,â he added. In the end, the final call was apparently made by Brad, who "wanted to figure out who he was" as a single man, despite Jen's pleas to stay married. Admitting she'd wanted Brad to work through their problems, she told Vanity Fair: âThatâs not Bradâs view of it. âWe believe in different things, I guess. You canât force a relationship, even if itâs your view of how you would like it to be conducted. Obviously two people leave a relationship because thereâs a different thought pattern happening. "My goal is to try and achieve a very deep, committed relationship. Thatâs what Iâm interested in, but itâs someoneâs prerogative to be or not to be in or out of a relationship.â Did you love Brad and Jen as a couple? Have your say in the comments section below...
Marie Claire is supported by its audience. When you purchase through links on our site, we may earn commission on some of the items you choose to buy. And we couldnât have called it. Jennifer Aniston and Brad Pittâs relationship has been surrounded by speculation this year, with the former couple announced to be friends after splitting 14 years ago. The former couple broke up in 2005 after five years of marriage and have not been seen together since, with Brad going on to marry Angelina Jolie and Jen going on to marry Justin Theroux. Following the split of both couples and Bradâs surprise appearance at Jenâs 50th birthday party, there were rumours of a possible reunion, but it has emerged that in actual fact, Jen and Brad are just good pals, reconnecting three years ago after Brad reportedly apologised. Rex Itâs hardly surprising therefore that fans have been speculating around Jennifer Anistonâs relationship with Angelina Jolie, with the two women both dominating Hollywood, attending the same award ceremonies and events. Videos you may like: Video you may like: Unsurprisingly, the two donât seem to be pals, but they have spoken before. In fact, it emerged this week that the last time they spoke was before Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolieâs affair emerged, back in 2004 while Jen was filming her last season of Friends. Matt Baron/BEI/REX/Shutterstock Speaking to Vanity Fair, Jen revealed the one and only time she spoke to Angelina Jolie, bumping into each other in a car park where Friends was filmed, just days before Angelina and Brad started filming Mr and Mrs Smith â the film that started Brangelina. âI pulled over and introduced myself,â Jennifer explained. âI said, âBrad is so excited about working with you. I hope you guys have a really good timeâ.â Reflecting, Jennifer reportedly recalled that after Brad had met Angelina, âhe was goneâ. This is heartbreaking.
August 2003: Angelina Jolie replaces Nicole Kidman as the Mrs. Smith to Bradâs Mr. Smith, spelling the beginning of the end of Brad and Jenâs marriage. January 2004: Brad and Angelina start Jennifer Aniston is on the December 2008 cover of Vogue (READ WHOLE THING HERE) and speaking out about Angelina asked the reporter, Jonathan Van Meter, to turn off the tape recorder when first asked about her ex-husband Brad Pitt's partner. Here's what she did say on the record:On being bothered that Angelina recounted a detailed timeline of how she fell in love with Brad Pitt on the set of Mr. & Mrs. Smith: "There was stuff printed there that was definitely from a time when I was unaware that it was happening. I felt those details were a little inappropriate to discuss. That stuff about how she couldn't wait to get to work every day? That was really uncool. On if she ever speaks to Brad: "[We've exchanged] a few very kind hellos ... and congratulations on your babies... [We] had an amicable split ... The marriage didn't work out."More the marriage:"The marriage didn't work out... Pretty soon after we separated, we got on the phone and we had a long, long conversation with each other and said a lot of things, and ever since we've been unbelievably warm and respectful of each other."Anistonays she's been "unbelievably lucky in love," but adds, "Whoever said everything has to be forever," she says. "That's setting your hopes too high. It's too much pressure. And I think if you put that pressure on yourself ... that's unattainable." On her romance with John Mayer: "People need to mind their own business! Did you ever think Claudia Schiffer and David Copperfield made sense? Love just shows up...."It's funny when you hit a place in a relationship and you both realize [that] we maybe need to do something else, but you still really, really love each other. It's painful. There was no malicious intent. I deeply, deeply care about him; we talk, we adore one another. And that's where it is." On when Mayer bragged about dumping her: "Trust me, you'll never see that happen again from that man." Before You GoPopular in the CommunitySeptember 17, 2023. 10. Courteney Cox, Jimmy Kimmel and Jennifer Aniston. Kevin Mazur/Getty Images for Turner. Jennifer Aniston loves to gush about her friendships, especially her close bond with
Bennifer. Britney. Brangelina. The celebrity gossip of the 2000s is well-documented, but what was it that kept us reaching for copies of Us Weekly and People? On Just Like Us: The Tabloids That Changed America, Clare Malone dives into the eraâs celebrity obsessionâfrom the magazine newsrooms, to the paparazzi boom, to the rise of reality televisionâto tell the stories behind the gossip, and what the tabloid sensation says about American culture. In Episode 3, weâre looking back at the tabloidsâ influence over the Jennifer AnistonâBrad PittâAngelina Jolie love triangle narrative. Us Weekly readers were young, relatively affluent women with a median household income of over $72,000 in 2005âthatâs over $100,000 in todayâs money. They were sophisticated media consumers. They wanted quality and good dish. In 2003, Janice Min took over for Bonnie Fuller as Us Weeklyâs editor-in-chief. At 33, she was her target demographic: She had two degrees from Columbia University and she had her first child while working at the magazine. Her former colleagues and numerous profiles describe her as a very chic New York lady. Think pin-perfect Prada. During her tenure, Us Weeklyâs circulation rose by 350,000 a week, and she was reportedly paid close to $2 million a year. That would put her on par with the reported salaries of big CondĂ© Nast editors like Graydon Carter and Anna Wintour. Thatâs a lot of money. But remember: Print was king in the mid-2000s. The cash flowing into and out of magazines, particularly one like Us, was pretty wild by todayâs standards. And that enabled the kind of reporting that Iâm about to describe to you, which in turn enabled the juiciest celebrity coverage around. Which made a certain kind of worldly young woman want to shell out for her weekly celebrity gossipâbecause it was perfectly calibrated to feel both escapist and entirely relevant to her life. Letâs turn things back to the Brad-Jen-Angie love triangle. Sure, it was definitely about cheating. But the whole thing had such a lifeâI mean, years of coverage centered on these threeâbecause it turned into a story about motherhood. Who deserves to be a mom. Whoâs screwing up their life by missing out. Hollywood and the media might get a lot of flack for being liberal shills, but let me tell you, the values of the tabloids are pretty damn traditional. At least on the gender norms stuff. One of the more unexpected entrants into the celebrity mom canon was Angelina Jolie. In 2002, Jolie adopted her son Maddox from Cambodia. It was quite a turn in life narrative, especially since the year before, sheâd been talking vials of blood and her sex life. Jolie and Billy Bob Thornton divorced pretty soon after she adopted Maddox. In 2003, she said that she hadnât had sex in a yearâshe was a full-time single mom in a new phase of life, though still an oversharer. Hollywood and America were perplexed by Jolie the mother, all the more so when she ended up in the midst of Brad Pitt and Jennifer Anistonâs breakup. It was like our brains couldnât handle the idea that someone could do something immoral but also have the desire to be a loving mother. The three-dimensional-ness of it was overwhelming. Tabloids deal best in a one-dimensional woman. Jen was the good girl, the one who deserved to have Bradâs babies. Angelina Jolie was settling down and getting everything that Jennifer Aniston, the good girl, deserved. It was, we should say, kind of an anti-feminist nightmare on the motherhood front, no matter how you felt about the whole cheating thing. The whole motherhood discourseâwhich is incredibly powerful, particularly for working women in their 20s and 30s, Us Weeklyâs readershipâwas so compelling. And also, I would say, not very good for women. For one thing, it narrowed the scope of who âdeservesâ to be a momâspecifically, not a non-cuddly lady like Angelina Jolie. There was a loaded quality to our fascination with her adoptions. Why was she adopting all the brown kids? As a statement of cool? Misplaced adventurism masquerading as motherhood? And of course, forever tying Jolieâs fertility to Jennifer Anistonâs put Jennifer Aniston in an unwinnable position: She was doomed to a decade of headlines about how she couldnât get a man to give her kids. Later, of course, Jenâs baby narrative would curdle a bit, and sheâd be accused of not wanting kids, thus conveniently placing the blame for the breakup on her head, not lovable old Bradâs. And she was treated to years of cringe-y interviews trying to shoehorn in the question of motherhood. Hereâs Diane Sawyer trying to force a connection between Anistonâs 2005 sexy thriller, Derailed, and the prospect of having babies: The Aniston-Jolie mommy wars of tabloid creation were also, to be fair, complicated by the fact that Jolie and Pitt kind of played up their family image from the get-go. Though they were a controversial couple, they didnât really hide from the press. Or I should say, they ended up using the press in a strategic way. Probably to counteract this kind of coverage. Hereâs our girl Diane Sawyer again, talking with Brad Pitt in 2005: This interview took place in the weird period before Pitt and Jolie officially came out as a couple, but after they had been very famously photographed on a remote beach in Kenya with Maddox. Those first exclusive pictures appeared in the May 9, 2005, issue of Us Weekly. OK, so ⊠these photos were almost definitely set upâthatâs what a couple of people in the paparazzi world told me. Itâs basically impossible to confirm at this pointâI couldnât track down the photographer who took the actual photosâbut Diani Beach in Kenya, where the photos were taken, is very out of the way and located on a private beach resort. Itâs not the kind of place that professional paparazzi just hang out at, hoping a good celeb will wander in. Someone almost certainly tipped the photographer. Those photos were taken in the spring of 2005. That summerâthough they had yet to confirm they were togetherâJolie and Pitt did a photo shoot for W magazine that was basically a caricature of domestic bliss. She dressed as the sexed-up suburban housewife, he as the hunky hubz, with a gaggle of kids in tow. It was ⊠in slightly bad taste. Jennifer Aniston certainly thought so. That was what she meant by her quote to Vanity Fair about Brad missing a sensitivity chip. But it was only the beginning of a years-long tabloid obsession with the Jolie-Pitt children.
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